Monday, 28 August 2017

अगर आपके पार्टनर को है आपसे सच्चा प्यार तो वो यह चीजें जरूर करता होगा




किसी के प्यार में पड़ना बहुत आसान होता है। आप कब किसी को अपना दिल दे बैठते हैं, यह आपको पता भी नहीं चलता है। मगर हां, यह मोहब्बत का सफर होता बड़ा खूबसूरत है। हालांकि यह सिर्फ उन्हीं को लगता है जो सचमुच इश्क करते हैं।
अब यह बात तो आप भी मानेंगे कि ‘जहाँ प्यार है, वहां धोखा भी है।’ अब प्यार की बातें तो सभी करते हैं मगर कोई सच्चा प्यार नहीं करता है। ऐसे में दिक्कत यह हो जाती है कि आखिर कौन सच्चा प्यार कर रहा है? कौन धोखा दे रहा है? बात अगर लड़कों की हो ताे फिर मामला और भी ज्यादा मुश्किल हो जाता है।
लड़को के साथ एक परेशानी यह भी होती है कि उन्हें अपनी फीलिंग्स एक्सप्रेस करना नहीं आता है। ऐसे में अक्सर उनकी गर्लफ्रेंड्स को लगता है कि, ‘यार वो तो मुझसे सच्चा प्यार करता ही नहीं, मैं तो बस टाइमपास हूँ।’
डियर गर्ल्स, यदि आपको भी अपने पार्टनर की मोहब्बत को लेकर जरा कन्फ्यूजन है तो हम इसे दूर करने की कोशिश कर सकते हैं। जी हां। आज हम आपको लड़कों के व्यवहार से जुड़ी कुछ बातें बताएँगे, जिन्हें पढ़कर आप समझ सकती हैं कि आपके पार्टनर का प्यार कितना सच्चा है? तो फिर देर किस बात की है। आइए जानते हैं पूरा मामला।

हमेशा निभाए वादा

यदि आपका पार्टनर आपसे वाकई सच्चा प्यार करता है तो वो कभी आपसे झूठे वादे नहीं करेगा। फिर वो किसी डिनर डेट पर जाने की बात हो या आपको कहीं लेने आने की। ‘अरे बेबी, भूल गया था’ जैसी बातें दर्शाती है कि वो रिश्ते को लेकर ज्यादा सीरियस नहीं है।

बिताए आपके साथ वक्त

ऐसा नहीं है कि उसकी जिंदगी में आप आ गई है तो वो दोस्तों को छोड़ ही दे। लेकिन अगर आप दोनों का पहले से ही कोई प्लान बना हुआ और उसके दोस्तों द्वारा कोई नया प्लान बनाने पर वो खुशी-खुशी उन्हें मना कर दे तो यह आपके लिए उसकी मोहब्बत दर्शाता है। वहीं अगर आपको टाइम देने के लिए कोई बना-बनाया प्लान कैंसिल कर दे तो फिर तो वो दीवाना ही है।

करें परिवार और दोस्तों की कद्र

आपके पार्टनर को सिर्फ आपसे मतलब नहीं होना चाहिए। यदि वो आपके परिवार का सम्मान करता है। आपके दोस्तों में भी इंटरेस्ट रखता है तो यह सच्चे प्यार की निशानी है। हो सकता है वो इंट्रोवर्ट किस्म का हो। लेकिन उसके हाव-भाव से तो सम्मान और आत्मीयता झलकनी ही चाहिए।

हो आपकी अहमियत

यदि आप अपने पार्टनर को उसकी कोई गलती बताती हैं या उसकी कोई आदत सुधारने की कोशिश करती हैं और वो इसे एक्सेप्ट करता है तो वो सिर्फ आपसे प्यार ही नहीं करता है, बल्कि उसकी जिंदगी में आप बहुत अहम स्थान रखती हैं। यदि वो आपका सम्मान ही नहीं करता और आपको कुछ समझता ही नहीं है तो प्यार की तो बात ही नहीं की जा सकती।

समझे आपकी उदासी

ऐसा कई बार होता है कि जब आप उदास होती है और अपने पार्टनर से बात करना चाहती हैं। ऐसे में अगर वो अपना कोई काम छोड़कर आपसे बात करता है और आपका मूड ठीक करने की कोशिश करता है तो उसे वाकई आपकी फिक्र है और वो आपको कभी उदास नहीं देख सकता है।

रखे आपकी सेहत का ध्यान

यदि आप बीमार हैं तो वो बिल्कुल माँ की तरह आपका ध्यान रखे। आपके काम भी खुद ही निपटा दे तो डियर वो वाकई आपसे बहुत ज्यादा प्यार करता है। अगर वो व्यस्त हो फिर भी आपका ख्याल रखने का कोई ना कोई तरीका निकाल ले तो इससे बेहतर क्या हो सकता है।

अपनाए आपकी कमियां

यह तो सभी जानते हैं कि परफेक्ट तो कोई भी नहीं होता। यदि वो ‘तुम इतनी बुद्धू क्यों हो’, यार ‘कितना दिमाग खाती हो’ जैसी बातें बोलने के बजाए आप जैसे हो वैसे आपको अपना ले, तभी उसके प्यार में कोई बात है।
लेकिन यह भी ध्यान रहें कि वो आपकी किसी बुरी आदत को सुधारने की कोशिश कर रहा है तो इसे गलत ना समझें।

आपके सपनों को दे उड़ान

सच्चे प्यार की निशानी तो यही है कि वो अपना लक्ष्य पाने के साथ ही आपके सपनों को भी अहमियत दे। ‘ये तो कुछ भी आइडिया है’ या ‘तुम ये नहीं कर पाओगी’ जैसी बातें करने वाला तो आप पर विश्वास ही नहीं करता है। फिर उसके प्यार का क्या मतलब?

फैसलों में करें शामिल

ऐसा नहीं है कि वो आपसे पूछकर ही हर काम करें। लेकिन अगर वो कोई बड़ा फैसला ले रहा है और इसमें आपकी राय उसके लिए बहुत अहम है तो ऐसे बंदे को कभी खुद से दूर मत होने दीजिएगा।

पूरी करें आपकी इच्छाएं

यदि आप कहीं बाहर जाने या कोई फिल्म दिखाने का बोल दें तो वो बहाने बनाने के बजाए खुशी-खुशी आपकी इच्छा पूरी करने के लिए तैयार हो जाए तो आपको उसके प्यार पर शक नहीं करना चाहिए। साथ ही कभी-कभी वो वाकई ऐसा ना कर पाए तो आप ही थोड़ी समझदारी दिखा दें।
ये बातें पढ़ने में बड़ी-बड़ी लगती है, लेकिन जब कोई लड़का प्यार में होता है तो वो वाकई ये सब करता है। भले ही वो कभी कहकर अपना प्यार ना जताए, मगर उसकी आदतें और कोशिशें नजर आ ही जाती है।

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New Facebook Messenger Scam Hijacks Your Account & Sends Messages To Your Friends!


Facebook Messenger users are being warned of the latest scam spreading around the app, tricking users into clicking unsafe links to websites baited with adware and viruses.

The hoax deceives Facebook users with personalized spam that they can share to all of their digital friends via the Messenger feature.
Messages include the person’s name, a “shocked emoji” and “video”, followed by an infected link.
Users are then directed to a malicious website, some are disguised as well-known sites such as YouTube. The scammer’s goal is to trick people into downloading adware that will spam your phone or computer with adverts:

According to BleepingComputer: “Users who click on the link are directed to different malicious sites depending on their browser.”
  • Those who use Google Chrome will be taken to a site impersonating a YouTube channel:
  • Firefox users (on both Windows and Mac) get taken to a website gifting people to a fake Flash Played installer:
  • Writing for SecureList, David Jocoby explained:
“The message uses traditional social engineering to trick the user into clicking the link. The message reads “David Video” and then a bit.ly link.
“The link points to a Google Doc.
“The document has already taken a picture from the victim’s Facebook page and created a dynamic landing page which looks like a playable movie.
“When the victim clicks on the fake playable movie, the malware redirects them to a set of websites which enumerate their browser, operating system and other vital information.
“Depending on their operating system they are directed to other websites.”
If the scam software is successfully downloaded it will glitch your phone/computer into sending and spreading the spam to all of your friends with the trick message.
Victims have claimed that the malware was able to track their keyboard activity on their devise, which is extremely worrying as it could give cyber-criminals access to your passwords and steal your banking information.
Facebook has asked that users report the spam.
The Daily Mail reports that according to Arun Vishwanath, there are some steps you can take to protecting yourself from the Facebook Messenger virus:
“Even using this checklist can’t guarantee stopping every attack or preventing every breach. But following these steps will make it significantly harder for hackers to succeed.
“1) Enable two-factor authentication (2FA). Most major online services, from Amazon to Apple, today support 2FA.
“When it’s set up, the system asks for a login and password just like usual – but then sends a unique numeric code to another device, using text message, email or a specialized app.
“Without access to that other device, the login is refused. That makes it much harder to hack into someone’s account – but users have to enable it themselves.
“2) Encrypt your internet traffic. A virtual private network (VPN) service encrypts digitalcommunications, making it hard for hackers to intercept them.
“Everyone should subscribe to a VPN service, some of which are free, and use it whenever connecting a device to a public or unknown Wi-Fi network.
“3) Tighten up your password security. This is easier than it sounds, and the danger is real: Hackers often steal a login and password from one site and try to use it on others.
“To make it simple to generate – and remember – long, strong and unique passwords, subscribe to a reputable password manager that suggests strong passwords and stores them in an encrypted file on your own computer.
” Monitor your devices’ behind-the-scenes activities. Many computer programs and mobile apps keep running even when they are not actively in use.
“Most computers, phones and tablets have a built-in activity monitor that lets users see the device’s memory use and network traffic in real time.
“You can see which apps are sending and receiving internet data, for example. If you see something happening that shouldn’t be, the activity monitor will also let you close the offending program completely.
“5) Never open hyperlinks or attachments in any emails that are suspicious.
“Even when they appear to come from a friend or coworker, use extreme caution – their email address might have been compromised by someone trying to attack you.
“When in doubt, call the person or company directly to check first – and do so using an official number, never the phone number listed in the email.
source and courtesy: David Wolfe; http://www.e-buddhism.com/

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